Culture vs. Education
Chapter 1
The moon shone brightly in the night sky as children played hide and seek at the Bantaba in their village, just a stone's throw from the carefully built round hut of Mba Sunkarr and Bakanding Bojang. They were a close-knit family living in the heart of Wanjaas.
Among them was Sarah Bojang, their only child, who had always dreamed of getting an education. “Sarah, Sarah, Sarah!” called Babanding, shining his flashlight over the group of kids sitting on the cool, sandy ground. “Nnaaam,” Sarah responded with her sweet, melodious voice. “Is tomorrow a school day?” “Yes, it is,” she answered, picking up her shoes from their hiding spot.
As she brushed the sand off her body, one of her friends reminded her, “You will be in charge tomorrow, Sarah.” She didn’t reply, instead looking back at Babanding, who stood patiently, holding a nightstick in one hand and a flashlight in the other.
“I told you not to stay out playing too late, especially on school nights. If you keep this up, you won't be allowed at the Bantaba anymore.” Sarah had no words and felt a bit embarrassed. Bakanding then told her to perform her nighttime prayer, Isha, to wash away any sand from her day, which she did before heading to bed.
“Nna!” Sarah called to her mother. “Where are my white socks? I washed them after school today!” “You’re starting your attitude again. Why can’t you look for your school things in the daytime before bothering us at night? Check in my clothing bin; I put some of your things there. And please don’t mess up my ironed clothes,” her mother replied. “Okay, Nna,” Sarah said, rushing off to her mother’s room. She quickly gathered her school materials for the next day.
As dawn broke, Bakanding called his family for the Fajr prayer before heading to the mosque. He made sure Sarah was awake and washed her face. While Bakanding went to the mosque, Sarah and her mother prayed at home. Mba Sunkarr started a fire and put an iron kettle filled with “Jambakatang” leaves on the stove to brew tea.
“Jambakatang” tea is popular in the villages for its various health benefits, far more revered than modern tea bags. Mba Sunkarr served this special tea to her daughter and husband, preparing warm rice to go along with it. Bakanding returned home right after the Fajr prayer to find the tea ready.
As the sun began to rise, casting its light across the land, Sarah got ready for school. She applied lotion to her skin and went to ask her mother for lunch money while she was sweeping the yard. “Nna! Esamah” (good morning), she greeted. Her mother replied with the same words. “I’m ready for school. Where’s my lunch?” Sarah asked. “Did you greet your father?” her mother replied. “No!” she answered. “Then go greet him and ask for lunch money; I don’t have any to give you.”
With a smile, Sarah ran to her father. She greeted him and asked for lunch money. Bakanding, who was resting on his rice-straw bed, got up, straightened his clothes, and took out fifty bututs to give her. “Abaraka baake, Babaa” (thank you, Dad), she exclaimed joyfully. “Thank you too. And don’t get into fights on your way to school,” he advised. Sarah nodded and dashed away.
Though it was still early and chilly, Sarah ran all the way to school. “Good morning, Master,” she greeted Mr. Alagie Jewru, the grey-haired man standing by the school gate. He always wore his glasses low on his nose and a suit with brownish leather shoes. “Good morning to you too, my child,” he replied. Mr. Jewru had an excellent memory and knew almost every student and their parents.
“Who’s your father?” he asked. “My father is Bakanding. You visited our home yesterday evening and had kola nuts with him. You asked me for a glass of water too. You wore a blue T-shirt and your usual hat.”
“Oh, okay, now I remember. Thank you, little journalist,” Mr. Jewru said with a smile. “My name is Sarah!” she added. “Yes, yes, I know. Thank you. You may go to your class,” he replied with a warm chuckle.
As Sarah entered her classroom, Mr. Jewru took off his glasses and sighed, amazed by her. “No one should dare misbehave when she’s around. She speaks so well, she could even tell the tiniest details of what someone did in her presence,” he thought to himself as he walked to his office.
At just six years old, Sarah was already in the third grade and showed great promise. Her teachers noticed her strong academic performance, but she often found it hard to study when her friends were outside playing. She seemed naturally smart and didn’t worry much about studying, even during exam weeks.
Chapter 02
After being promoted to seventh grade, Sarah’s school was transferred to a nearby village just a few kilometres away from Bulukandi, her birth village. It was one fine evening. The sun turned its yellowish colour as it dipped to set when Sarah came from school and saw her clansmen gathered at their compound.
Her appearance swiftly changed. Her face wore some sort of sorrow and confusion—not knowing what might be the reason behind the gathering. To her, it might be nothing except death. The angel of death had visited her family, but who exactly it could be was a blur in the air.
Perhaps it was her grandma, because she had not been feeling well these days. But how could it be a funeral when people were wearing smiley faces? No one seemed to be worrying, as laughter and chats could be heard from a distance. Middle-aged uncles were setting themselves up under the mango tree, brewing attaya.
“Assalamu Alaikum,” she greeted, without killing a second to check on her grandma, whom she always found comfort and a sense of existence with. She stepped into her chamber only to realise that she was alive and healthier than she could ever have imagined. “What is happening here?” she asked. “Go and undress yourself and come, let’s chat.”
Sarah dropped off her bag and undressed herself in her mother's chamber. As she passed by her in-laws, one of Umar’s brothers—her husband—called, “Hey, my wife, how are you doing?” She couldn't believe her ears. She turned to see whether she was the one he was calling. Sarah ran to her grandma, sobbing. “Is it right that my father meant what he said last time?” Grandma nodded.
In those days, parents arranged marriages between a boy and a girl at their tender age. They tried to maintain the bond and unity in the family by getting their kids married to one another. So, this was also planned since Sariba’s childhood—that she would get married to her cousin brother, Umar.
She threw herself at Grandma and burst into tears. All her dreams of becoming a role model for her clan, family, and friends seemed far to fetch. The desire to be a nurse—caring for patients and helping women in labour—was shattered and blown away, as this ten-year-old child, who was not even qualified to cook, was now embarking on the world of marriage.
Her fast physical growth: big hips, butts, bulging tits, and eloquent expressions were what deceived her parents. But her mind and soul expected nothing of this nature. How could she explain to her friends, classmates, and teachers that their smart and promising girl was forced to be a school dropout?
Sariba was off mood throughout that evening. Her lunch was given to her, but she showed no sign of taste for food. She was buried in grief and disappointment the whole night, knowing that what had happened couldn't be undone unless one of them answered the call of The Most High, Allah.
She told her grandma to tell her friends that she was asleep when they came to call her to the village Bantaba to play, which she did as assigned. She spent the night weeping severely under her pillow. Grandma always woke up to console her, telling her that as far as there is life, there is still hope.
She told Grandma to do her a favour by telling her father that she was ready to marry—if they allowed her to complete her education. “I will do anything for you, my dear. Talking to your father will not be a problem. But I too need your favour,” Grandma said. “What?” “Promise me that you are going to stop crying and go to bed.” She chuckled and nodded her head.
Chapter 03
The night was calm and soothing, but that was to others, not Sarah. Though she didn't cry, she accepted her grandma's request, but she never knew the sweetness of that night. She kept tossing and turning the whole night without her eyes closed.
Sarah woke up very early in the morning, greeted Grandma and her parents, swept the compound, and prepared for school. She normally branched to call her friends on her way to school, but not today. She was disappointed, betrayed, and caged by her clansmen, especially her father.
The little happy girl whose face always beamed with smiles that showed her beautiful dimples and white teeth, her eloquent speeches that moved even the most arrogant person, her well-curved hips which allured men on the streets—were all in grief. Grieving for a future she was craving but now stripped away from her.
Her rights and respect were taken away, leaving her in despair. Her dignity was lost, and her gender was in shame. Her age had been cheated, and her physicality had been abused, distancing her mates from wondering.
Sarah was colder than ice in the class throughout the day. She was in class, but her mind travelled 1,000 kilometres per hour into space. When her friends asked what the matter was, her responses were always precise: “I'm fine,” but truly she was not. She had been very contributive during lessons, and her interaction with the teacher in terms of problem-solving was good—until this day.
She distanced herself from her mates in isolation, hanging out within the confinement of the classroom.
Her teacher, Madam Tunkara, called her after school, asking her about her drastic change of mood. Madam Tunkara drew her to the guest chair next to her desk, pointing for her to sit. She brought a bottle of cold water and a glass from her drawer and served Sarah some. This treatment was not normal, but to make Sarah comfortable and willing to express.
She cleared her throat and sighed. “I have noticed your contribution in class today was very low from normal and your movement with your friends, i.e., your break-time routines—going together to the school playground, sitting and chatting under that ‘Soto’ tree, and all the stuff I knew you and your friends with. What is wrong?”
Sarah bent her head toward her laps and paused for some seconds. Her eyes dewed with tears that showed her feelings. Her heart pounded in her rib cage with unspoken expressions. She became dumb and unable to articulate. She seemed too young to discuss a matter of this nature. She was filled with words and phrases to start with, but which one would be perfect to start with?
“My father got me married yesterday,” she said. Tears started rolling, and she chuckled.
“What!” Madam Tunkara exclaimed out of shock. She opened her eyes as if she was informed of having a bastard child in her womb, and her mouth was left open like a crocodile hunting flies. She dragged and leaned back on her 360-rotating seat.
“Have you done something which forced him to take this risky decision?”
“I'm not sure,” she nodded. “My grandma said this was planned by my father since I was young, that I would get married to Umar, and that's what he is fulfilling.”
“Is there anything I can do for you—something like talking to your parents, if you are okay with that?”
“No! It won't work. My dad won't listen to you.”
“I will try my best to make sure this thing doesn't happen,” Madam said.
“You will not understand,” Sarah said, shaking her head.
Madam Tunkara insisted that she must talk to Sarah’s father, even though Sarah didn't welcome the idea. She gently wiped Sarah’s face with her handkerchief, which she drew from her side bag. She gave her word to visit and have a dialogue with Sarah’s parents soon. Both ended up tearful, hugged, and dispersed.
Madam Tunkara sat in her office wondering how this young girl’s parents sent her to her matrimonial house this early. Her questions were answered. She couldn't do anything about it but consulted the schoolmaster. She entered the office and greeted him, her voice filled with concern and her face pale with discomfort.
“We need to talk, Master!”
“Is there any problem, my dear?” he asked.
“A big problem, for that matter. One of my students named Sarah Bojang was forced by her father to get married.”
The headmaster, upon hearing Madam Tunkara, set down his lenses and leaned on his seat, resting on one of his arms.
He was extremely surprised by his gesture as the atmosphere was filled with total silence.
“Did you confirm this?” he replied.
“I have talked to the child and given her my word to visit her parents.”
“This community is trying to resemble other communities in teenage marriage, and the consequences always backfire.”
Madam Tunkara crossed her legs over with frustration and remarked, “Well, she seemed mature by her looks. I think that's what made her parents give her hand in marriage.”
“Make me alert, and let us go together to her parents.”
He switched off the laptop, opened the drawer, and put the laptop to rest till the following morning.
Sarah went through the back route of Wanjass village and straight to her home. She intentionally changed the route to avoid further questioning from her mates who barely saw her in school. When she got home, she undressed and went to Grandma, who was resting on a mat under the mango tree. She explained to her that her teacher would visit Dad concerning this marriage issue.
“Sarah!” Grandma exclaimed and gently rose from the mat.
“What has gone over your intelligence that you couldn't see what might happen when your teacher sets his or her feet here? Your journey to your ancestors will begin the day your father sets his eyes on them regarding this issue.”
Tears started rolling from the young girl.
“I told her not to visit, but she insisted.”
“You better stop it before the heavens start shaking.”
She lay back on the mat without an utterance, and Sarah too, but her mind had too much to think about.
Chapter 04
A few days passed without Sarah's teachers coming to visit her, which was something she had secretly wished for. She started to avoid them because they seemed too quick to notice her struggles, and she didn’t want to answer any of their questions.
One day, while Bakanding Bojang was in his backyard making tools under a large cotton tree, some strangers arrived at his home asking to see him. The strangers met his grandmother, who welcomed them inside and made them comfortable.
After exchanging the usual greetings in Mandinka, Madam Tunkara introduced themselves and explained why they were there. Grandma nodded, confirming that the topic of getting Sarah married was indeed a reality. She called for her son with a soft, shaky voice, and Bakanding quickly came into the room.
He greeted the visitors and took a seat. “These are Sarah’s teachers who came to check on us,” he said.
“That’s wonderful,” replied the old man. “Let me call Sarah for you; she shouldn’t be too far away.”
Bakanding then called for his daughter from the play area, saying, “Greet your teachers; they’ve come to visit us.”
As she pulled back the curtain, Sarah’s heart raced with anxiety. She understood why her teachers were there. After exchanging greetings, one of the teachers spoke up.
“We’ve heard about the plans for your daughter Sarah’s marriage, and we felt it was important to talk with you.”
“We don’t wish to challenge your decision,” the teacher continued, “but given her age and development, we believe she might not be ready for marriage just yet. We are kindly asking you to allow her to finish her education before she gets married.”
Bakanding sat quietly, nodding along as he listened, creating a sense of hope for Sarah, who was anxiously watching her father’s reactions to the teachers' gentle words.
“That’s understandable,” he finally replied. “I appreciate that you are considering her well-being. I need to return to my work now.”
“Thank you for your understanding,” said the teacher, relieved. Sarah felt an overwhelming wave of joy wash over her as if a heavy burden had been lifted from her heart. She stood up to hug her teachers with gratitude before walking them out.
“Dad agreed that I can finish my education!” she exclaimed joyfully as she returned.
“Sarah! Go back to playing until later this evening,” her father instructed.
Delighted, she dashed back to her friends. Grandma understood Bakanding well, knowing he often focused deeply on his duties.
That night, Bakanding called for an urgent family meeting in his chamber. He harshly scolded Sarah for bringing those teachers to their home, declaring that her education was over starting that very night. He called Sarah's future in-laws to arrange for the wedding the next morning, utterly determined to send her away. Unfortunately, Sarah never saw her school or her teachers again, as she was married off the following day, and her father vowed he would never welcome her back into his home.